RMD’s remarks confront a widespread belief in many African cultures, where sons are typically regarded as more important. Reflecting on his own experience, RMD shared that when his father became ill, his sisters showed steadfast devotion by putting their careers on hold to look after him, while none of the brothers made similar sacrifices.
In hindsight, RMD disclosed, “When my father became sick, my sister quit her job to be with him. Another sister paused her business to share caregiving duties. None of us boys stopped our work or business.”
He pointed out that fathers who are upset about having only daughters don’t realize the treasure they’ve been blessed with. "You’re still complaining about having only girls? You've hit the jackpot!" he declared.
RMD continued to underline how daughters play a crucial role in enhancing their parents’ lives. He remarked that daughters are often more considerate and loving, help extend their parents' lives, and tend to be more obedient than sons. He added that when daughters leave the household, they maintain a strong emotional connection with their parents, and as they age, they are more likely to take them into their homes, regardless of whether they are married or not.
In his supportive message to fathers of daughters, RMD urged them to recognize the tremendous blessing of raising daughters. "Each of your daughters is worth three sons!" he stated. “Having a daughter lengthens your life. She will not cause as much trouble as your sons and is less likely to be disobedient. When she moves away, she will continue to think of you. If you’re too elderly to live alone, she will bring you into her home, regardless of her marital status. Be grateful for the gift of daughters!”
